In 2016, I hit a low point in how I handled big life transitions. I was wrapping up my time in Singapore, working for design firm IDEO, and trying to figure out what was next. I created so many options that I essentially paralyzed myself. I couldn’t move forward.
At other times in my life, I’ve felt constrained by too few good choices. Either way, it was always a huge struggle to figure out what I really wanted and to move in that direction. I’ve gotten stuck so very many times.
By 2021, when I wanted to figure out what my next step in my career was and where I wanted to live and build a life, I decided enough was enough and I used my training in design to reinvent the experience of getting unstuck, making decisions, and moving forward on things that mattered.
Building on my design expertise and adding in what I’d learned about neuroscience, biology, and somatic experiencing (understanding the body), I realized the key wasn’t better spreadsheets or more sophisticated pro-con lists, it was about feeling my way, with intention, to the answers and changes I craved.
But how? In this heady world, we can lose sight of or not trust our intuitions. We take comfort in data, even when it doesn’t provide clarity. So, I designed a set of activities and tools to help all of us (myself included!) get back to that, by rethinking what data-driven looks like and tying it much more closely to our inner sense of what’s right and true.
Part of solving my own problems was realizing that this was the most impactful thing I could do for work: helping other people to get unstuck, to gain clarity, confidence in their next steps, and commitment to the paths they chose. We do this through a series of expertly designed activities and actions that help you gain confidence in a way that feels comfortable, not scary.
Welcome to The Art of Getting Unstuck, the output of all of that experience and learning.